When somebody in the family decides to become vegetarian, mealtimes can become a source of stress and struggle. How can you be a vegetarian when it’s your meat-eating parents that do most of the cooking?
First, be confident in the choice that you have made. Sure it can be hard to be a vegetarian (only if you don’t know how that is), especially when you don’t do all the cooking on your own, but anything worthwhile is never easy. You have your reasons and you are doing the right thing, so don’t be tempted to give up just because it’s more challengng than what you are use to. Remember that you won’t be living in your parents’ house forever, and someday when you are living on your own and control what you buy and eat it will be much easier.
Second, you need to have open communication with your family. Explain that they don’t have to become vegetarian themselves, but you’d appreciate their support in helping you stick to your new diet. Brainstorm ways that they can continue to eat what you like but you can also adapt the meal to be meat-free for you.
Work with your parents to brainstorm a list of recipes where it’s possible to leave meat out of your portion and still include it in theirs. Ask your parents if they wouldn’t mind using vegetable broth rather than chicken broth or beef broth in their cooking.
Explore new meatless recipes and cook them together – maybe your parents will be willing to sacrifice meat for themselves a few meals a week if it means they get to cook and interact with you during meal prep. You could suggest a Meat-Free Monday for instance.
Even step up and do some of the vegetarian cooking yourself at home. It’s guaranteed that your parents will welcome the break from having to cook every day. Search for recipes using potatoes, beans, pasta, and rice as a main ingredient rather than meat. Traditional Indian food is vegetarian, and it’s so delicious and flavorful that your family probably won’t even miss the meat. Show them how good veggie meals are and they might even want more of them.
Just make sure that you are getting enough protein, calcium and iron in your diet. If you are just picking the meat out of all the meals your family eats, you’ll may lack in soem of these nutrients if you are not paying attention to what you are putting in your body. Most vegetarians get their protein from nuts and legumes, so make sure you are getting plenty of those foods or taking a vitamin supplement or superfood like Spirulina (which has a high protein content). You need to have the recommended daily amount of protein, calcium and iron to stay healthy when you’re embarking on your new vegetarian lifestyle. But that’s usually the easy part anyways so dont’ get too overwhelmed about it as almost all vegetables have some form of protein in them.
Be patient with yourself as you begin your quest to become meat-free. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and though it would be nice to never touch meat again realize that you may have to make some concessions for your family’s sake. It may be slow going, but be patient with yourself as you progress. You’ll get there eventually. Don’t beat up on yourself for not doing everything all at once – becoming a vegetarian is a big shift, in diet and mind-set, not just for you but for everyone in your household.







